4th trip

Halloween

Now autumn has come, and var­i­ous hol­i­days are approach­ing. Again there are occa­sions for meet­ings. The next hol­i­day is Halloween.

Hal­loween is always cel­e­brat­ed on Octo­ber 31 on the eve of All Saints’ Day. It is not a pub­lic hol­i­day. Already in Sep­tem­ber, and espe­cial­ly from the first days of Octo­ber, every­one begins to pre­pare for the hol­i­day. Gro­cery stores sell pump­kins of all kinds, cakes in the form of coffins, and super­mar­kets have entire sec­tions ded­i­cat­ed to Hal­loween goods. Here they sell all kinds of skele­tons, cos­tumes of var­i­ous evil spir­its, as well as just car­ni­val costumes.

Kids in Amer­i­ca love to dress up as super­heroes. In past years, Mark was Spi­der­man, Iron­man, a Nin­ja, and Cap­tain Amer­i­ca and this year he want­ed to be a milk car­ton. I laugh and say that the dairy com­pa­nies should pay you extra for adver­tis­ing. At work, they also have themed par­ties before Hal­loween. Levy was asked to come to the office in striped clothes all week. And at Valya’s, their depart­ment arranged a toga par­ty. You need to appear in Greek attire, at least wrap your­self in a sheet. She does­n’t have small sheets, so we went to the fab­ric store, bought some white mate­r­i­al, and I made her a cos­tume for the party.

halloween

For this hol­i­day, peo­ple “dec­o­rate” their homes with ghosts, witch­es, skele­tons, spi­ders. In the evenings they glow, move and make all sorts of sounds. One evening we walked around the neigh­bor­hood and looked at these prepa­ra­tions. Trees hang cut off rub­ber heads, ghosts, mon­sters, stuffed dead peo­ple, witch­es, there are tomb­stones, lanterns in the form of skulls near the hous­es. In some hous­es fly­ing ghosts are pro­ject­ed onto the wall. We go home and sud­den­ly on one of the streets we meet five haveli­nas. These ani­mals look like small wild boars 90 – 100 cm in size. They walk in small flocks with their babies. Dur­ing the day they are sleep­ing, but in the evening and at night they come from the desert straight to the hous­es to feast on some­thing. Espe­cial­ly often they can be found in these Octo­ber days, when peo­ple lay out pump­kins with carved eyes and mouth near the hous­es. Haveli­nas for adults are not very dan­ger­ous, the main thing is not to run away from them, but it was still unpleas­ant to meet them in the dark. We went to the next street, and it turned out to be a dead end (here such streets are called “cul de sac” because of their semi­cir­cu­lar shape). We wait­ed for these ani­mals to leave, and then returned home safely.

I don’t real­ly like this after­life theme. These skele­tons, ghosts and tomb­stones near the hous­es shocked me at first. My first vis­it to Amer­i­ca also fell on Hal­loween, but then we cel­e­brat­ed it in Las Vegas, and I did not see how it was cel­e­brat­ed in oth­er places and in gen­er­al I looked at every­thing with wide eyes. Las Vegas is a spe­cial city, every­thing was scream­ing, buzzing, sparkling. There were peo­ple in cos­tumes all around, but most­ly it was a hol­i­day for old­er youth. In ordi­nary cities, this is one of the favorite chil­dren’s hol­i­days, and all enter­tain­ment is done for children.

On the Fri­day before Hal­loween, Valya’s work­places were dec­o­rat­ed at work, dressed in cos­tumes and put sweets for the guests, and then at at the end of the work­ing day, the chil­dren of employ­ees in cos­tumes came and walked around the depart­ments, treat­ed them­selves to sweets. On Sat­ur­day, Mark also went to a par­ty with a boy from his class. This boy’s par­ents have a Hal­loween cel­e­bra­tion each year. Mark has a friend at school, and they invite friends and rel­a­tives. Hire musi­cians, dress up in cos­tumes. There are always a lot of peo­ple, since the yard and the weath­er allow. The next year they promised to com­plete the con­struc­tion of a ten­nis court and a swim­ming pool.

On the morn­ing of the 31st, Mark woke up with­out a wake-up call, hap­pi­ly con­grat­u­lat­ed us on the hol­i­day. We were even tak­en aback at first, with what hol­i­day? And he: “How with what? With Hal­loween!” And then he expressed indig­na­tion to Mrs. Lao, a Chi­nese teacher, that she sched­uled a test on the day of the hol­i­day. He went to school in a Nin­ja cos­tume, because the milk car­ton cos­tume made it dif­fi­cult to sit in class. There were many nin­jas. Every­one who came in cos­tume got some sou­venirs, Hal­loween stuff in the form of a small rub­ber pump­kin that smells like a real pump­kin or a rub­ber bagel that smells like pineapple.

Trick-or-treat.

Well, in the evening the most impor­tant action of the cel­e­bra­tion unfold­ed. As soon as dusk falls, the chil­dren begin to trick-or-treat (trick-or-treat). The essence of this action is that chil­dren in cos­tumes go from house to house and receive sweets. There is a cer­tain eti­quette in this walk — go only to hous­es that are dec­o­rat­ed and where there is light. The hosts them­selves treat them with sweets or put a con­tain­er with sweets near the entrance. Tra­di­tion­al­ly, as soon as the own­er opens the door, the chil­dren should ask the ques­tion: “Trick or treat? (here: trick or treat)”, and the own­er should answer what he choos­es, but I didn’t real­ly notice to keep this tra­di­tion. You can choose a can­dy that you like, but they take only one at a time, even if no adult is present. It is not cus­tom­ary to approach the same house more than once.

For the evening we invit­ed two cou­ples of our friends with chil­dren to walk around the Neigh­bor Hood. First, they had a small buf­fet, and then went out­side. We did­n’t dec­o­rate the house much. They hung only a cob­web on the bush­es and a small lumi­nous skele­ton on the door, and near the door they put a bowl of sweets for vis­it­ing chil­dren on a paint­ed box. Mark and I cov­ered the box our­selves with paper and paint­ed it. The streets were warm and unusu­al­ly live­ly. Every­where there were chil­dren dressed as princess­es, cow­boys, dev­ils. Many neigh­bors put tables and chairs out­side, sat with wine, treat­ed chil­dren to sweets, and adults were offered wine. But we had with us in plas­tic cups.

The chil­dren col­lect­ed full bags of sweets, and when they came home, they each dumped their bag and began to look. Mark began to sort out what to keep for him­self and what to car­ry to the coach tomor­row. The fact is that these days chil­dren overeat sweets, and can­dies no longer fit into them. The process of col­lect­ing is impor­tant to them. There­fore, the den­tist, in order to save chil­dren’s teeth, takes can­dies the next day, but you have to go some­where, take them some­where. And Mark has a “bring sweets to the coach” pro­mo­tion in swim­ming. They give sweets, which are then donat­ed..

In gen­er­al, I liked the hol­i­day. I even began to treat these skele­tons, mon­sters, mon­sters and tomb­stones near the hous­es with indif­fer­ence. And I espe­cial­ly liked that here at this time of the year there is great warm weath­er and you can arrange such a cos­tumed mas­quer­ade. Our rel­a­tives in Boston say that at this time it is already cold, damp and rain­ing. But they still pre­pare cos­tumes and gath­er at one of the neighbors.

No soon­er had Hal­loween been cel­e­brat­ed than prepa­ra­tions began for Thanks­giv­ing and Christ­mas cel­e­bra­tions. The adver­tis­ing indus­try is in full swing.